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Sistah Gurl . . . Friend

Every woman needs a Sistah Gurl Friend in her life

Who will speak THE truth to her

They may be connected because they have the same parents

or be from another mother or father

She may be no kin at all

Or they may be joined because they are washed by the blood of the Lamb

Sistah Gurl, Sistah Gurl, Sistah Guuurrrlll Friend

You can be who you really are around her

Without makeup or your hair did

You don’t have pretend to have it all together

Because she knows you don’t

you don’t have to select the right words to say

You can vent because she gets you

Sistah Gurl, Sistah Gurl, Sistah Guuurrrlll Friend

She will hear you out

Let you rant and rave

Have your pity party and even bring the cheesecake

But only for so long

She knows exactly when to tell you . .

You are trippin’

You know you’re wrong

Blow your nose, wipe your face, get a grip

Move on

Sistah Gurl, Sistah Gurl, Sistah Guuurrrlll Friend

She may have been your girl since back in the day or you’ve only known her for a minute

She could be your same age or a generation ahead or behind

Your backgrounds may be identical or as different as night and day

It doesn’t have to make sense to anyone but you

Why it works, who knows? Who cares?

Sistah Gurl, Sistah Gurl, Sistah Guuurrrlll Friend


by Jacqui Davis 2009

Photo by Arina Krasnikova on Pexels.com

Below is a playlist that commemorates my sister friendships. Do you have a favorite poem or song that captures yours? Talk to me about it in the comments.

SisterGurlFriend Playlist